My Everything

I want be the wind that fills your sail
Be the hand that lifts your veil
Be the moon that moves your tides
The sun coming up in your eyes
Be the spark that lights you up
All that you've been dreaming of
And more ... so much more
I want be your everything! When you wake up
I'll be the first thing you see.
I'll cherish your words
I'll finish your thoughts
I'll be your compass when you get lost.

Whispers Of The Night

Listen To The Winds Soft Cry
Of A Lady Singing Her Lullaby
Whispers Of The Night So Long
Wishing For That Famous Love Song
You Are My Light
When Darkness Falls
You Are My Sight
In My Darkened Halls
Hear The Joy Of An Angel's Glee
When The People Around Her Now See
With Eyes So Clear And Pure
All Now Really Can Be Sure

Silent Love

The word Love,
Love is something we all can enjoy,
It is something we all can share,
Only with that special someone, 
Who we all care about.
But why are we scared of it?
I don't know why,
But if I wasn't,
I would tell you every time, 
Rain or shine,
Every time we're apart I nearly cry,
Because this love inside of me is strong,
There are no boundaries that it can hide,
I want to scream it out,
But I'm too shy, 
So I wait and watch wishing,
That I had the courage to tell you,
How much I feel inside.
MY LOVE FOR YOU WILL NEVER DIE. 
This is to that special someone. 
I Love You. 

What it means to love

As far as the ocean is wide
through miles and miles of sea;
You will be someone special
a true miracle to me.
As high upon the mountain tops
as high as one can climb;
You will be so dear to me
the best friend I can find.
As many stars that twinkle
throughout the heavens above;
You will be a a bright reminder
of what it means to love.

An Angel's Kiss

An Angel's Kiss,
Is like so much bliss.
And that Angel is you.
You know what to do.

You love to make me smile,
Every time I've been sad for a while.
The feelings are growing.
And they are showing.

An Angel's Kiss,
Is something I'm glad exists.
You're someone I know.
And you help me grow.

 

Please tell me.
How you feel.
So I know.
If it's real.

But it's An Angel's Kiss.
It's something I shall not ever miss.
I love you.
And that I will always do.

Star of my life

A look from you is as blinding as the sun,
As stunning as your eyes I lose myself in.
A look from you is as pure as the clear blue sky,
When I'm with you.
Every minute I'm not around you,
I feel like I left something behind.
Every time I'm not looking at you,
I feel like I am blind.

A-Z romantic Gift Ideas....

Have you ever run out of gift ideas? Here's a list of romantic gift ideas from A to Z....

• A - Albums, antiques, aphrodisiacs, artwork, azaleas
• B - Balloons, books, bubble bath
• C - Candles, cards, CDs, chocolate, cookies, concerts, cruises
• D - Diamonds, dining out, donuts
• E - Earrings, engagement rings, erotica, escape weekends
• F - Films, flowers, furs
• G - Garter belts, gemstones, gold,  and gadgets, guitars
• H - Hats, Hawaiian vacations, heart-shaped things, honeymoons
• I - Ice cream, incense, Italian vacations
• J - Jazz music, Jamaican vacations, jewelry
• K - Kiss coupons, kites
• L - Licorice,limousine rides, love poetry
• M - Magazine subscriptions, movie tickets, music
• N - Nature escapes, necklaces, nightgowns, novels
• O - Opera, opals, ornaments
• P - Perfume, picnic baskets, popcorn
• Q - Quiet afternoons, quilts
• R - Rings, roses, robes
• S - Satin sheets, silk shirts and shorts, spas
• T - Tickets, tents, time together, tools, t-shirts
• U - Umbrellas, unconditional love
• V - Vacations, vases
• W - Watches, waterfall trips, weekend getaways
• X - eXtravagant gifts and gestures
• Y - Yachts, Yukon vacations
• Z - Zoo, Zorro

Romantic Dinner

Romantic dinners can be as simple or as elaborate as you want them to be. These can be some of the most memorable evenings that you and your lover will ever share together. Obviously you could take your date out for a meal in a beautiful restaurant but why not choose to treat your partner to a romantic meal at home? Can’t cook? Don’t worry. Even the most hesitant chef can create the ideal romantic dinner – just follow these simple guidelines to ensure the perfect evening.
Set the mood
Setting the right mood is the starting point to creating a really memorable romantic dinner. There are many ways to create the right ambience. You could use scented candles, lanterns, or simply dim the lights to create a more romantic mood. Fresh flowers on the table and soft, romantic music are always sure-fire recipes for success.


The menu
Think about the types of food that your partner likes to eat. Choosing your lovers' favourite foods is best as it shows that you really want them to enjoy their evening with you. If you are a hesitant cook then you could prepare the meal in advance, or maybe even think about use high a quality pre-made meal from a store. Remember that whatever you choose to serve should not involve you slaving over a hot stove for the majority of the evening – this is not the point of a romantic dinner!
There are many modern myths about certain foods being more romantic than others. But always think about your lover first, for example oysters may be an aphrodisiac but they are not a great idea if your lover hates seafood. Also if it’s a new relationship it may be best to forget foods that are hard to eat, like spaghetti. If your menu involves strong flavoured foods like garlic and onions this is fine so long as you are both eating them together!
Get the look!
Has your sweetheart ever commented on a particular outfit? Then maybe you could think about wearing this especially for him for your romantic dinner. Or maybe there’s a little black dress tucked away at the back of your closet, just waiting for the right occasion? Well maybe this is it! A really traditional romantic meal requires you to dress up a little, but whatever you decide to wear you should be sure that you feel comfortable and sexy in it. As you are getting ready for the evening make an effort to enhance your best assets and really take the time to get your makeup and hair just right.
The element of surprise
It is always very flattering and truly romantic when a lover plans something really special as a romantic surprise. The more thought you put into getting the romantic meal just right, the better. Think about how your lover would feel as you answered the door dressed in your best outfit, your hair looking great, makeup perfect... mood lighting, soft romantic music and the delicious aroma of especially home cooked food in the air.
Can you see it now? Well then, what are you waiting for? Get your romantic dinner planning started! Right now!

Where and How to Kiss Your Love

• Behind their ear.
• Tip of their nose.
• Back of their neck.
• Underside of their forearm.
• Curve of their waist.
• Palm of their hand.
• Inside their wrist.
• Under their chin.
• Their eyelids.
• Inside of their ankle.
• Their collar bone.
• Tips of their fingers.
• Their spine.
• Small of their back.
• Their tummy.
• Behind their knees

Kiss Meanings

Kiss on the hand - I adore you.
Kiss on the cheek - I just want to be friends.
Kiss on the chin - You are cute!
Kiss on the neck - I want you.
Kiss on the lips - I love you.
Kiss on the ears - Let's have some fun.
Kiss anywhere else - You're the best.

Kiss Types

Below you will find a variety of kiss types. If you find some that catch your fancy, feel free to try them :-)  
Butterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.
Cheek Kiss - A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.
Earlobe Kiss - Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.
Eskimo Kiss - With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together.
Freeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss) - Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french kiss with a twist of cold.
Foot Kiss - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss.
Forehead Kiss - The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head.
French Kiss - The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the French call this "The English Kiss". Girls Kissing
Fruity Kiss - Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your mouths.
Hand Kiss - Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand. Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady.
Hickey Kiss - The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay.
Mistletoe Kiss - Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover.
Letter Kiss - Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as XXXXX.
Neck Nibble Kiss - Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips.
Nip Kiss - This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations.
Shoulder Kiss - Simply come from behind, embrace her, and kiss the top of her shoulder. This is a sensual, loving kiss.
Sip Kiss - Take a small sip of your favorite drink. Leaving a little bit of it on your lips, kiss your partner. It is a unique way to create a sensual feeling and your partner will enjoy it.
Talking Kiss - Whisper sweet nothings into your partner's mouth. If caught in the act, simply say as Chico Marx, "I wasn't kissing her. I was whispering into her mouth."
Tiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.
Trickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favourite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while kissing.
Tongue Sucking - A variation of the French kiss. During an open-mouth kiss gently suck on your partner's tongue (not too hard because it may hurt). Very sexy :-)
Quickie Kiss - When you're in a rush. Often the nose gets it rather than the lips.
Vacuum Kiss - While kissing open-mouthed, slightly suck in as if you were sucking the air from your partners mouth. This is a playful kiss.

Valentines Day Ideas

Valentine's Day is a special day that you must spend with someone that you love, whether you are attached or not. If you happen to be unattached at the moment, you can always hang out with similarly unattached friends or spend the day with family. If you happen to be attached, though, then it is a must that you do something special and romantic with your sweetie. Do you already have plans on how you are going to spend Valentine's Day with your loved one? If you are low on ideas right now and need help to make Valentine's Day a uniquely romantic day for you and your sweetie, then here are a few romantic Valentine's Day ideas that you can think about.

Valentines Day Idea #1: Go on a Weekend Getaway
The best way you can make sure that you will be alone with your sweetie on Valentines Day is to go on a weekend getaway with just the two of you. If you can afford it, you can go for a short weekend cruise or spend the weekend at a beach resort.
If traveling is not an option for you, you do not have to go far at all. You can check in a nearby hotel and spend the weekend locked up in your room with only each other for company.
Valentines Day Idea #2: Have a Couples' Spa Treatment
If your idea of a romantic Valentine's Day is to relax with your sweetie, you can have it by going to a spa and availing a couples' spa treatment. In a couples' spa, you and your sweetie receive a massage treatment at the same time and in the same room. The benefit of going to a couples' spa is that the two of you will not just spend time together. At the same time, you are letting your bodies become rejuvenated through massage, and this is good for your health.
You can also follow up with the massage treatment later on in the privacy of your bedroom. You can massage each other and revel in the soothing touch that each massage stroke can give.
Valentines Day Idea #3: Go to an Amusement Park
Who says amusement parks are for children and teenagers only? You too can have some fun in an amusement park even if you are already old and gray. You can ride a Ferris wheel and share a kiss once your cab gets to the top of the wheel. You can raise your heartbeat rate by going on a roller coaster or a horror ride. You can also share some hotdogs, some cotton candy and some laughter.
Valnetines Day Idea #4: Go Camping
Are you and your sweetie both nature lovers? Then why not spend the weekend before or after Valentine's Day camping and hiking on nature trails? Not only will you have fun in the great outdoors, but you will also spend time strengthening your bond with each other and with Mother Nature.
Besides, this will give you splendid opportunities to stargaze at night and appreciate the beauty of the night sky. Also, you may also stumble upon perfect chances to make out outdoors.
Valentines Day Idea #5: Spend Time Alone at Home
Whoever said that you cannot have a special Valentines Day just cooped up at home? As long as your honey is cooped up with you, you can always make the day romantic and memorable. The two of you can make organic dinner together with whatever is in the fridge and eat it by candlelight. If you do not feel up to cooking, then you can just order a pizza or get takeout Chinese food and eat it by candlelight. And then, in a room ablaze with candles, the two of you can talk the night away.
There are so many things that you can do to make your Valentine's Day romantic and special. As long as you make the effort to make this day truly unique and fun, then you and your sweetie are guaranteed to have a Valentine's Day to remember.

Forever Love

You are my description of love
You are my description of friend
You are my description of everything
You are my description of beginning to end. You have put me on a pedestal
You make me feel ten feet tall
You've always been there for me
You've loved me through it all.
You've stood by me through thick and thin
You've always been patient and kind
Just thought I'd let you know
You're the owner of this heart of mine.
So you ask how long I'll love you
Well this is what I have to say
Past, present, future, always
Forever and a day!

A Birthday

My heart is like a singing bird
Whose nest is in a water'd shoot;
My heart is like an apple-tree
Whose boughs are bent with thick-set fruit;
My heart is like a rainbow shell
That paddles in a halcyon sea;
My heart is gladder than all these,
Because my love is come to me.
Raise me a dais of silk and down;
Hand it with vair and purple dyes;
Carve it in doves and pomegranates,
And peacocks with a hundred eyes;
Work it in gold and silver grapes,
In leaves and silver fleurs-de-lys;
Because the birthday of my life
Is come, my love is come to me.

What I Love About You

I love the way you look at me,
Your eyes so bright and blue.
I love the way you kiss me,
Your lips so soft and smooth.

I love the way you make me so happy,
And the ways you show you care.
I love the way you say, "I Love You,"
And the way you're always there.

I love the way you touch me,
Always sending chills down my spine.
I love that you are with me,
And glad that you are mine.

one wish

If I could have just one wish,
I would wish to wake up everyday
to the sound of your breath on my neck,
the warmth of your lips on my cheek,
the touch of your fingers on my skin,
and the feel of your heart beating with mine...
Knowing that I could never find that feeling
with anyone other than you.

An Entrapment

My love, I have tried with all my being
to grasp a form comparable to thine own,
but nothing seems worthy;

I know now why Shakespeare could not
compare his love to a summer’s day.
It would be a crime to denounce the beauty
of such a creature as thee,
to simply cast away the precision
God had placed in forging you.

Each facet of your being
whether it physical or spiritual
is an ensnarement
from which there is no release.
But I do not wish release.
I wish to stay entrapped forever.
With you for all eternity.
Our hearts, always as one.

A Special World

A special world for you and me
A special bond one cannot see
It wraps us up in its cocoon
And holds us fiercely in its womb.

Its fingers spread like fine spun gold
Gently nestling us to the fold
Like silken thread it holds us fast
Bonds like this are meant to last.

And though at times a thread may break
A new one forms in its wake
To bind us closer and keep us strong
In a special world, where we belong.

I am sorry

Dear abc,

Since you haven't responded to my e-mails and I haven't heard from you since Monday evening, I assume you are pretty upset with me. I am sorry about that. I was trying very hard to understand you, where you were at and how I could best fit into your life. I am sorry if that made you frustrated or unhappy with me. I guess I have moved from the "Friend Zone" to "The Dead Zone" (or "The End Zone"). The saddest thing for me is that I never got to meet you. I never got to look into your eyes and see your smile. I never got to give you and receive a BIG, HUGE hug. I missed out on ALL those big hugs you promised me!! (smile)

If I ever made you smile, if I ever made you laugh, if I ever brought any joy into your life, I hope you would consider doing me two favors. First, I would really appreciate it if you could send me a nice picture of yourself. I would like to finally see the person that so intrigued me, whose inner beauty I so admired. And please don't make me beg. Please, please, please... (smile) Second, if sometime in the future you find yourself in a better place and the memories of a man with a good heart that could touch your heart outweigh the memories of his shortcomings, I hope you will give me a call. I really would like that.

With that said, I wish you well and I will miss you.
Thinking of you fondly,
xyz

Keeping Love Alive

 I believe that finding, sustaining, growing, and enjoying satisfying relationships is one of greatest joys and challenges we have as human beings. We have generally been blessed with a tremendous desire to love and be loved; to listen and be listened to; to take care of and accept care from others. And yet meaningful, sustainable relationships often elude us – especially as it applies to the opposite sex.

Here are some things I’ve learned in my walk through life - as a divorced single mom, widower, and over 50 remarried - about finding and sustaining a “soul-mate” relationship:

1. Know who you are and what you want. You’ll never get what you want if you don’t know what it is. As women look for love, we often take what comes our way rather than seeking what and who we want. Knowing the type of person you want to spend the rest of your life with comes from knowing who you are – your values, interests, what you can/will tolerate, what you won’t.

2. Learn how to disagree, speak your mind, and/or confront.
Avoiding conflict is death for a marriage. It may seem like you’re on the right path by never, ever arguing or disagreeing but avoiding conflict requires repression of anger, which leads to depression of feelings. Passion is extinguished in this environment. Learn to fight fair and keep the slate clear. (see article on What Are You Afraid Of?)

3. Speaking of passion – keep the fire lit! I think women often underestimate the critical role sexuality and having a really good sex life plays in a successful marriage. Men, you know what I’m talking about! Create romantic opportunities, ask for what you want, talk, talk, talk – do what you as a couple need to do to keep this aspect of your relationship alive and well.

4. Don’t allow children and child-raising to take precedence over your marital relationship. A great marriage is the best gift you can give your children. Get away from the kids on a regular basis. Find a good sitter! Arrange for an overnight with just the two of you at least once a year. Talk about matters other than the kids, the bills, the family. Someday it will just be the two of you again. Be sure you still know each other.

5. Take responsibility for your actions and affirm each other. Say, “I’m sorry” when you make a mistake or hurt your partner. Say, “Thank you” when they do something for you. Appreciate what your husband does! Don’t take “expected” action for granted. Recognition and affirmation are two of the best gifts you can give each other. Spend them freely.

6. Don’t take on the persona of, “I shouldn’t have to ask – he should know.” This is one of the greatest mistakes women make in a relationship. I hear women say things like, “But if I have to ask for it, the real meaning/pleasure/gesture is lost.” Get over it! Men can’t read our minds. They’re not always tuned in or on the same wave length. Maybe they just don’t know. Be a big girl and ask for what you want! (I’m pretty tough on this issue)

7. Get help if you need it. Don’t put your head under a bushel. If your relationship is in trouble (no matter whose “fault” either one of you thinks it is), seek out ways to make it better. Find a relationship coach, a therapist, a marriage counselor, a book – I highly recommend John Gray’s Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus In the Bedroom (it’s on tape so you can listen to it together), Don’t give up – keep searching and talking and striving until things get better. The answer rarely lies in changing partners.

Get Any Woman to Love You Immediately

If you've struggled to find love in your life and you feel that all you need is a woman, then perhaps you need to re-evaluate the ways you try to meet the opposite sex. All women are different and respond to different stimuli, so you cannot try all the same moves on every girl you meet. You have to be willing to take risks and rejection to finally find the woman for you. If you are looking for faster and more immediate methods to get a women interested in you, there are some tried and true methods that work on some (not all) women. You may need to try out different techniques, mix & match until you find what works for her.

• Whispering in her ear is sexy. The mixture of mysteriousness and sensuality is intoxicating. Use a deep voice and she'll be putty in your hands.
• Be passionate not only with her but in your interactions in life itself. Life is short and you only get one chance to do what you want. Approach with gusto.
• Being able to think on your feet and speak intelligently is important for women -they want to be seen with someone of whom they can be proud.
• Be in tune with who she is. No one can be "up" all the time. Everyone has days when they are not at their best.
• Tenderness is a quality women can never get enough of, be it towards them, toward children and other people in general. Even being tender with animals says a lot about what you are capable of.
• Kindness goes hand in hand with tenderness, it seems. Generosity is also a trait women look for in choosing a man to fall in love with.
• Be positive. Try to see the good in everything and in people.
• Be forgiving. Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect. Holding on to past hurts from other relationships only creates tension and has no place in this new relationship.
• Honesty is key. Being able to say things truthfully and without regret shows you are a strong individual, not easily swayed by public opinion or goes along with the crowd. Being genuine is also the brother to this trait - say what you mean and do what you say.
• Stay independent. Even though you want be with her, don't give up everything you did before you met her. Neediness in men is not attractive.
• Have a belief and stay true to it.
• Modesty is important because no one wants to be around a show off or someone who constantly brags about the things he has, or done, or seen.
• Admit when you don't know the answer to something or are having trouble with an event going on in your life. Humbleness is attractive.
• Be yourself and don't try to be someone you're not. Don't try to hide your faults, because everyone has them. Even her.

Women are stimulated mentally, physically and also emotionally. Just because you are an attractive man does not mean every gorgeous woman is going to fall for you. You have to be able to adapt your techniques and expectations of each woman you meet, as they are all individuals and should be treated as such if you want to get anywhere.

How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You - In 4 Easy Ways

Love is indeed a tough business and it's very hard to make a girl fall in love with you. Love is much more intense and involves deep feelings and emotions. Girls normally tend to be highly demanding when it comes to the issue of love. Girls are always looking for that perfect one who would love her and keep her happy for the rest of her life. You can make a girl fall in love with you if you become all that she desires and wants in a man. Read on to find out how you can make a girl fall in love with you and achieve desired results.

Fake it till you make it- Well it's a dirty way to make a girl fall in love with you but it sure does work. Try to get into a personality which almost every girl would love and admire. Become someone they would love to be with. The best way is to surround yourself as many females as possible and be the one and only they would love to be with. When you become a rare commodity you would find more girls falling in love with you than ever before.

Appeal right to her heart- Yes we all know there is a big connection between heart and love therefore the best way to make a girl fall in love with you is to appeal right to her heart. Now by this it means appeal to her emotions and get her to involve her emotions. If a girl feels emotionally attached to you than your job of making her falling in love with you is half done.

Be the one who clicks- Girls are always looking out for males who are the so called ones and with whom girls can spend the rest of their lives with. So how to become this one and only who would click? The best way to do this is to be everything and have every ingredient which a girl would expect in her man whom she would love.

Be the prince charming- Every girl expects that a prince charming would come into their life some day who would love them with all his heart. Life is not much of a fairy tale but girls do want it to be that way. The best way to make girls fall in love with you is to become that very prince charming that they expect. Whenever you spend time with her make it the best time of her life and make her enjoy your company. Girls normally tend to fall in love with guys whom they feel comfortable and safe around.